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Profiles start private. In your profile’s Preview & privacy step, choose private, eligible members, or everyone. Public profiles can be read without an account after publication and any required provider approval. Private profiles do not appear in public browsing. Public introductions may appear in search engines; changes can take time to leave search caches.
Share approved photos with everyone, signed-in members, or only yourself and authorized reviewers. Changing photo visibility also changes who can request the image directly. Images already viewed or saved by someone cannot be recalled from their device.
Public introductions do not include account email, date of birth, private dating preferences, identity documents, bank details or booking locations. City and state are shown only when you choose to share your city. Orientation and other sensitive profile details have separate controls in the member area.
We use the state saved in your profile to place nearby introductions first. Other locations remain available. Approximate coordinates are optional; an explicit distance search needs both members to have shared their approximate location.
You can start using an eligible adult account without an email-verification step. Your email remains your sign-in and password-recovery address. Keep it accurate. To ask about your account or privacy, sign in and open a private support ticket.
Contact supportYes. Profile visibility and photo visibility are separate choices in Preview & privacy. You can publish an introduction while restricting photos to signed-in members, or to yourself and authorized reviewers.
Changing visibility controls future access through the platform, including direct image requests. It cannot recall copies someone already saved. Search engines and social platforms may also retain previously public content temporarily.
Public introductions show city and state only when you choose to share your city. Optional matching coordinates are not displayed to other members. Your account email, birth date, private preferences, identity documents and banking details are excluded from public introductions.
Make thoughtful plans with public meeting places, boundaries and support in mind.
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